Are men the same as each other?

You are contradicting yourself. First you say "we can only base people off their own merit." Then you go on to say "A woman IS MORE LIKELY to be weaker and dumber than the AVERAGE man." First you're talking about individuals, and then you are talking about the two sexes as wholes. Besides, IQ tests are not real tests of intelligence. Who made them up anyway? Success in the real world is what really matters and I'd say a lot of women are and have been successful in the real world. And just because Newton and Einstein were men, it doesn't mean that all men are smarter than all women. Just because you are of the same sex as somebody who accomplished something important it doesn't mean you did that same thing. So in answer to your question, I'd say no, since not all men have achieved things by "their own merit." And you can't compare mens' and womens' height and strength. They are the equal mentally but not physically.